Thanks guys! Yes Barb, she knows about me going to STBX's for dinner. I texted her when I was picking up the kids to thank her for a lovely day and tell her how much I was looking forward to next weekend. During dinner she texted me to say how much she enjoyed our time together too. So I responded "Gong hai fat choy, did you eat all the candy yet lol? and she responded "I ate one piece, I'm saving the rest to share with you next weekend, ur a sweet man!" So I responded "sweet things for a sweet lady! Gotta go." So uh STBX knows about her now! As far as scaring her off, I don't think that's possible lol! She is such a sweetheart, what more can I say and she is into me! We talked about everything today, it was wonderful. I feel so lucky tonight.