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Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4 JamesG #2214866 01/23/12 03:54 AM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia P purgatory OP Member
OP purgatory Member P Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 825 Virginia	25- I really don't like thinking about the possibility of having to see them together at our future major events... but I do know that it's a possibility. I only reached out to her in regards to the kids, but I can see how this might be mis-understood as being "ok" with everything. I don't plan on texting her for anything else now that both our kids are fine. BF- I was planning my trip to Florida to be with my family..... but Vegas sounds great!! Not sure that my wallet will allow me to go I feel the same way about 'having someone next to you'. My mom and I have never really been on the same page in regards to how to comfort, but having her sit with me on the couch to watch a movie- is her way of caring and 'being there' for me. BUT it's that same mindset (just being near someone) that was the problem for my H, he needed the touch for love and comfort- since I was never shown that growing up, I didn't know how to do it. Through all my therapy, I've discovered that it is actually something that I need as well (and the absence of it in my parents) and I've learned how to express it to H... but it's too late. James- thanks for your perspective. I never thought about how/if I was 'letting' my WAS influence my decision. He's actually said that he supports my decision to go, but he also doesn't want me to go.... I don't know if he means because it will be an inconvenience for him with his daily schedule, or if part of him likes knowing that I'm always around... since I can't mind read- guess I'll never know. M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12

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Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/21/12 11:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/22/12 02:22 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/22/12 02:30 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/22/12 03:39 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/22/12 04:11 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	mr mr	01/22/12 04:24 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/22/12 04:32 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/22/12 06:36 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/22/12 04:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	WenikiTiki	01/22/12 05:09 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/22/12 07:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/22/12 08:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/22/12 08:55 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/23/12 01:12 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	JamesG	01/23/12 01:27 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/23/12 03:54 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/23/12 05:13 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Rick1963	01/23/12 10:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Hopeful321	01/23/12 12:45 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/23/12 01:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Crimson	01/23/12 02:13 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	stillhopin	01/23/12 08:32 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	WenikiTiki	01/23/12 11:14 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 01:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 02:29 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	nhmom	01/24/12 02:50 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/24/12 02:51 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 03:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 03:07 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 05:03 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 05:27 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 06:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 12:39 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/24/12 12:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/24/12 01:16 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	sayitaintso	01/24/12 03:28 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BklynMom	01/24/12 03:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Autumn Leaves	01/24/12 03:53 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Rick1963	01/24/12 04:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 05:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 06:10 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Crimson	01/24/12 06:12 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 06:15 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 07:22 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BklynMom	01/24/12 07:51 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/24/12 08:24 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/24/12 09:03 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/24/12 10:01 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 12:15 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/25/12 01:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 03:39 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BklynMom	01/25/12 03:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 04:32 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/25/12 08:04 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/25/12 01:50 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/25/12 04:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 05:05 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 04:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/25/12 05:02 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/25/12 05:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/25/12 07:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/25/12 09:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/25/12 09:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/26/12 02:15 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	nhmom	01/26/12 02:29 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/26/12 03:16 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	mr mr	01/26/12 03:23 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/26/12 03:37 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/26/12 04:54 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	WenikiTiki	01/26/12 07:17 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/26/12 12:25 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BklynMom	01/26/12 01:18 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/26/12 01:19 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/26/12 02:30 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/26/12 04:22 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/26/12 09:00 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/26/12 09:50 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/26/12 10:03 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 12:36 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/27/12 01:18 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/27/12 01:20 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/27/12 01:28 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	mr mr	01/27/12 01:59 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 03:12 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/27/12 12:51 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 01:33 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 01:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/27/12 02:37 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/27/12 03:12 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 06:42 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	JamesG	01/27/12 06:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 10:36 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/27/12 10:54 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/27/12 11:25 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/27/12 11:47 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/27/12 11:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/28/12 02:45 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	ces67	01/28/12 02:51 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/28/12 03:49 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/28/12 04:13 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/28/12 04:56 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/28/12 06:12 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/28/12 01:46 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/28/12 03:39 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/28/12 03:54 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Grmpy_Mnky	01/28/12 03:58 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	25yearsmlc	01/28/12 05:06 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/28/12 05:07 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	labug	01/28/12 05:17 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	keep_going	01/28/12 06:10 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/28/12 06:48 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/28/12 10:56 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BFloat	01/28/12 11:44 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	sayitaintso	01/28/12 11:54 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	keep_going	01/29/12 12:10 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Oneeleven	01/29/12 12:20 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/29/12 02:31 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	Jenna333	01/29/12 02:40 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/29/12 02:52 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	dbmod	01/31/12 12:25 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	keep_going	01/28/12 06:19 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/28/12 01:36 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	BklynMom	01/28/12 01:42 PM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	kolja	01/22/12 04:02 AM
Re: Too Little, Too Late.... part 4	purgatory	01/22/12 04:13 AM

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