Today he stayed a little while after dropping off DD and he started talking about separating the bills and helping me find an apt (my choice to move and rent out the house). I kept my composure the entire time and when he left I cried my eyes out.
He comes around more. Lingers after dropping off the kids. We are going out as a family this weekend with our friends and their DD. He's a people pleaser and hates it when anyone thinks bad about him. Therefore this situation has not only hurt some friendships but it has become his goal to make ammends w these people.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017