waiting for the tides to change

[WenikiTiki]

Hey BF!

I did figure out one problem I was having with my GAL activities. I was trying to do new things. What is working for me is to do old things I used to love to do but now had quit doing. What were your old go-to's? I love to make things. I have dusted off some unfinished projects. It feels better for me because I don't have the anxiety of trying something totally new.

I used to make the most amazing pinecone wreaths. I used random stuff to embellish the pinecones. Natural stuff gathered on hikes. I plan to start doing that here in Hawaii. No pinecones, but no shortage of fun thigs to try and dry and craft with!

So for you to be with friends more is there an activity you can schedule weekly/monthly? BUNCO, dinner group, game night, book club, wine tasting? Okay, THANKS for helping me figure out some ideas for me!

And yes, let him worry for awhile! One of my H's main complaints was that he didn't want to be the idenity that was "US". So hard to have been depended on and now pushed away!

Hey, I heard you!