it's neither strong nor weak of you to take time off to gather yourself and get a campaign plan going...

it's smart and healthy. Do it...

but don't forget that retreat thingy...well, it's a WORKshop b/c you WILL WORK on your life...but in a super supportive, constructive way.

sending you hugs and prayers...and

if you can, send fewer messages to OW...

I don't want you to appear punitive but I also don't want her to imagine a kumbaya happy family regardless of what she and h do


but sure, IF that comes to pass, someday there will be graduations and wedding ( I hate going down this road but it's Only for ONE minute...okay? Turn this "off" when you finish the post)


but yes if they remain together in some capacity...or even if they do not,


can you see yourself at your Godchild's wedding? Sure...but I'd bet anything you'll be with a man.


And you'll be happy


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change