and Crimson--fyi, I read over my journals from 2005 recently. (God what a mistake...mostly)
I got mad all over again at my h!!
But the Point is, I DID believe a lot of what I said then...and now I don't...
or it doesn't matter as much to me now...So nothing is written in stone.
Don't react to ALL the words that come out of her mouth. The one thing we "know" is that she's confused...she wants to process this.
MAYBE (and I hope this) she wants a 3rd party to make her feel safer...to help her believe in your changes.
Maybe the c will ask You questions...not just her.
We know your overall goal is restoring your m to a better one than before. We know. The old m is dead and good riddance... But for this counselling session, set other goals...like "not losing my temper"
or "not interrupting w"...."not correcting her perception or defending myself"...
make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
