25yearsmlc message to peeps

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Thanks for creating this thread and all your advice. I have read and re-read everything you have posted for me and am trying to follow your words of wisdom. I have not posted in a while in my own thread but will do so soon.

I have been reading A LOT on the boards though. Old and new. And this thread is one of those things.

I wanted to ask you to expand on something you said earlier on your thread here, since it applies to my sitch.

Even though I am doing great on my GAL and personal growth and even making some significant progress on my detachment, I still think that I am missing something, since I just don't see much progress, and I think it relates to your comment:

**IF your spouse left you b/c you neglected or abused them, then your GAL has to have a different flavor, obviously.**

Any further insight or explanations on this would be great. I am sure others would benefit as well.

thanks!