Oh 25, those are excellent. I need you in a little hidden ear piece when the next conversation comes up. Thank you. I get the tactic as well, I'll have to think about other questions or thinggs she brings up to counter in similar ways.
And to the real point, I don't want to be the guy that was just up there making her feel intimidated, its not my intent but that doesnt change the fact that is how I came accross, that is how I made her feel. I don't like that guy, regardledd of how this turns out with her, I just can't stand that I made someone feel that way. I realise there are prob no quick answers on this one, but I suppose being aware of it is half the battle.
Any tips on dealing with the coldness that is there when the kids aren't there.