? for people who have gone to Retrouvaille

[25yearsmlc]

I haven't checked into this website in a long time. I've been busy with work and travel. It is so good to see that people are still finding Retrouvaille, and Retrouvaille is still working its magic.

indeed....Retrovaille has a structure that took me by surprise, starting out easy and thoughtful- but for me, a little slow. Or so I thought.

Then somehow it catches up with you and you make some headway,

and maybe a breakthrough, or 3...and there you go...

I did not feel our divorce was truly busted UNTIL we did Retrovaille...

I still think Piecing is life long, but the divorce got busted. So that's beautiful.


For those interested in personal, i.e., your own individual work, or b/c your spouse won't go and you want to be a better person/spouse/parent/worker-- try Essential Experience (EE) in Philadelphia..very solution based and a lot like DBs approach. Not a weird cult and no I don't get paid to say this.

But it was Life changing for me, and the changes my h saw in me were profound enough that HE later went....He was a field grade officer in the military at the time so when I say he's not the type to do this, I mean it. And he thanked me for "the best gift" he'd "Ever received" after he attended...

Only thing I found comparable to EE (and I love these things) would be Retrovaille - but that's specifically targetted at the couples issues whereas some of us have both--our private baggage AND it affects the m...so, food for thought. EE has a website and you can check it out...


I say the more you work on YOU, the better all your r's are...

good luck all!