Getting Better??

[irishblessings]

You all are awesome! In my mind I am working so hard - but I don't seem to be making much progress. How do you know what's being "too hard" on yourself and just expecting yourself to do the right thing?

Saw XH tonight at son's ball game. Will give him credit that he has not brought OW around since daughter had talk with him. It does make it easier. He took son to breakfast this morning and told him that he almost has all of his debt paid off and so he might be able to get son a car in the next month or so. REALLY? I'm ready to file bankruptcy but HE has been able to concentrate solely on himself and put all of his resources towards his debt. I have been dealing with life and kids and the sh*t he left unfinished behind. He looked lighter and happier tonight. Lucky him.

I want my turn...