Living with a WAW while going through a D part III

[workinghardguy]

if I could only find a way to get my W to understand this is my goal

But that's the problem isn't it? It's OUR goal as in our own personal goal, not "OUR" goal as in the collective of husband and wife.

I believe the WAS has to get to a point where trying a new R/M with us is the best available option for them. Better than being single, better than the OM/OW, better than moving through a sequence of guys/gals trying to find the "right" one.

If there is one thing we have going for us is that, at some point in time, we were the "right one". So at least we have that...