Well, it's coming up on a year now since bomb #2. I seriously didn't think back then I would still be here. Back then, my W was on the fast track to D. I thought it would've been over by now, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm still in the game. Hopefully, if you're new here and you feel like you're not going to have time to DB, this will tell you there is a possibility you may have a lot more time than you think.
Like I've mentioned at the beginning of my previous threads, I have chosen not to waste this time and this situation. I have used this time to GAL, make a lot of new friends, and do a lot of new things I never thought I'd do. I can say that part of my life has improved dramatically. I feel like I'm finding myself and working toward being my best possible self.
One thing that's been big for me is how much I've grown in my faith. I have become a lot closer to God. I reached out to Him at the beginning of my situation when I was completely broken and He's been faithful. Unfortunately, my W appears to have taken off in the opposite direction.
Over the last month, I have gone through a period of ambivalence about my situation. I'm still there, but my W and I have had a conflicts lately we've worked through that have shaken that ambivalence a bit. Oddly enough, working through those unpleasant situations made me a little more interested in her again.
