I've been having the 'why do I want him' thoughts a lot. I can say that I don't want *this* man, but the man that I know he can be.... But who's to say that the one I know will ever come back?
Been having the same thoughts about my wife lately too. Even her family, who's reached out to me, seems to think I've put up with more than is reasonable. She's basically cleaned out our account twice this month so I had to take her off - all afternoon she's been texting quite angrily. And hatefully.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12