Let me know what you think.....

[Many people on here have said to look for the positives, and applaud the 1% they do.]

The baby is sick today. I text H after he left this morning to let him know about his fever. We both became concerned that he might be getting sick from whatever D6 has a the hospital today (since they've spent the last few days together.) H kept texting/asking how our baby was doing, I responded with temperature readings and symptoms. He was communicating back and forth with OW and me to compare symptoms of the kids.

I told H that the baby would only drink apple juice, and we had run out. I didn't ask him to bring any, but he offered and came over soon after (1%?) We made a plan for taking the baby to the hospital if his fever got worse.

[I was on my computer the whole time, playing on these boards- trying to seem occupied] H stood opposite of the desk and looked sad. I asked what's gong on and he unloaded (not angry) with how he was frustrated that he didn't get to do what he planned today- "but you can't help when kids get sick". He also made a point of telling me what his plans were for the rest of the weekend (non of which involved OW and her kids)... opening up for a reason?? He lingered for a little bit, then walked to the door- I never got up from my computer.... and actually started this post as I was listening to him.

I said: "good bye" from my desk
H said: "bye babe"

I don't want to overanalyze (too late, already doing it) but was this a good thing that he shared without me questioning? Why do they do this? I know, I know... have no expectations.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12