Things are progressing slowly, which I expect. The last week or so she has started to warm up towards me, we talk about things in general, stuff happening with the family and friends. Before she would just ignore the fact that I was around. For me this is a step in the right direction, as I have said to her before baby steps. We haven't gotten down to talking about the our relationship at all, I'm just trying to let her get comfortable in having conversations with me. Part of the problem in the past was that I didn't pay attention and didn't act like I really cared if she was there. I'm trying to make it known that I want to talk to her, and I'm interested in what she is saying. I don't want to start to pressure her about our relationship, she seems slightly more comfortable and I know she doesn't need any more pressure from me. Again without looking to deeply into things, thursday was a good day for us (least I thought) we talked about things in general, she left for nursing school, did things with the kids when she got home, I ran her a bath for her to relax, then when she was done she came down and sat near me on the couch, she feel asleep and I helped her up to our bedroom, told her That I would grab my stuff and go sleep on the couch, (we haven't stayed in the same bed for about a month), she said that I didn'thave to and said I could stay in the bed. I was nice to lay by her and that was the extent of our night. Again I try not to look to deeply into things but it was a nice change. I take every day one day at a time!
