Val, last November I read this from this post to me.
Originally Posted By: Val
I'm glad you have a gameplan... and I think it's important to have.. but I think it's even more important that YOU believe in your changes.

I think that we sometimes get caught up in our own fear with it comes to communication with our spouse. It's like even though we work on ourselves for months.. it can all go away with one interaction with them.

The truth is that IF our changes have been for ourselves all along.. the fear WON'T happen. It can't happen because that person no longer exists.

Believe in you, believe in your changes.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill