yes. very hard not to project! deep breath. one day at a time.

purg - you are still human. i think i would have felt all those things as well. natural instinct to protect your own.

so now what? what choice do we have but to continue on and just do the best we can.

you and i need to take bklyn's advice about not projecting because the thought that kept running through my mind was that i had to create a happy life for kids and I w/out H. now i am focusing more on slowing things down and taking baby steps.

we're all here for you!!


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11