Don't project that you are destined to be co-parents forever. It took me so long not to project into the future. I told myself if I didn't project I wasn't excepting reality but there is an in between.
Just focus on each day or each hour or each second and enjoy all you are blessed with.
If you h and ow actually want to move forward together they are going to face huge hurdles including d16 & all the other kids. Don't let them unite against you.
Kill 'em with kindness.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13