Good point, NHMOM.

Isn't there a saying somewhere that "we can't see the big picture because we are too close to the details?" (I know I butchered that saying, and I always think of Monet paintings when I hear it.)

I know that I'm guilty of picking apart and analyzing every conversation and action from H (the details), I think I'm afraid of what the big picture would actually look like: H moving on to another woman and sees no future for us....

Fill up my coconut again..... I don't think my smoke stack is big enough yet, still waiting.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12