Sandi2,

Do you think I'm on the right path? I don't react to my W's behavior, I treat her as my best friend. If she asks me to do something I will do it for her, as I would my friends.

It seems as if we are stuck, she is just waiting to move to Dallas this spring, we will be divorced by then she insists. I try not to get involved with future discussions but I'm going to need to make some decisions regarding our sons school here shortly. Anytime I bring it up she doesn't want to address it.

She assumes that I will pay for their school while she will suffer financially on her own. Do I continue with what I'm doing, waiting for her to file, but be there for her for what she needs?

Maybe "lost her cubs" wasn't what I intended, more like they are growing up and on their own. But again was just looking for insight, maybe there is progress, I'm just to close to see it.