Bite your tongue!!! It's the nectar of the Gods. I dropped by the dating site tonight to pick up my messages and there was SDA lady. She messaged me right away and said that she had a great night talking to me last night too. She said " I am so happy to know someone like you who can make me smile the way you do...and your Cantonese is pretty good too lol!" We chatted for a bit and shared about how the day went and then I told her I needed to sign off and do my meditation/prayer or else I'd be talking to her all night and never get to it! Such a nice lady.