Light at the end of the tunnel......

[NYCPeter]

Well I called this afternoon and told W that I wanted to take D7 to the ski lesson (in-laws were going to take her, then drive to their lake house overnight).

W was fine with it, I'll then drive them both to the lakehouse for overnight with in-laws after skiing and then drive back home. W will be working - I'll try to hook up with a couple of friends if they are free.

I will have a conversation with W to includes me in any discussion re: plans for the girls before she commits to them.

Still waiting for paperwork from L - if it's what she told me the other day, I am very concerned from a financial perspective. It could turn ugly very quickly as after rents for a 2-bedroom in this area it would leave me around $300 a month for gas, food etc. No way that will work, so we'll end up having L's going back and forth on finances.

No point in worrying until I see the figures and talk to my L.