I really like the confidence is yourself that you're displaying on here smile I don't think it was horrible that he came shopping with you- and it's good that you two are still able to get along... because whether or not he comes back, y'all have got to get along for the kid's sake.

My H has made the same statement about us 'not being the typical couple going through this'... it's bittersweet to hear that. He recognizes that we are still great friends and can enjoy each others' company, but at the same time, he doesn't want me as his wife.

I'm pleased to see that someone else can admit that they 'weren't head over heels' right away. Don't get me wrong, I adored H from day one. But my deep, passionate love grew over the years until I was 'head over heels' for him about 2 years ago. I don't think this makes us bad people- it seems logical that love would grow/change as you share more experiences, have more kids see each other's faults and still love them.

Enjoy your PJ party! You reminded me of something that I used to do with S6 when he was little: we would have a 'pancake picnic' on a blanket in the living room and watch a movie.... I think I'll have to do that again! Thanks for the inspiration smile

How's school going? Any luck getting away from mr. chain smoker??


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12