Reminding him of the day will push him farther away. He wants out, not to remember anything romantic. Hes a WAH, an alien. No heartstrings to tug right now. Contacting is pursuing and is no different than throwing yourself to the floor, hugging his legs and crying and begging him not to go. Not attractive. Think back to your exes..... Would you be attracted to them if they did that? Or reminded you of an anniversary?
Be strong. Men value what they have to work for.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
