"but shes taking my kindness as a sign of weakness. "
Mindreading
"Isnt it telling them that now matter how crappy they treat you, you are still there waiting for them?"
There's a difference between being a doormat and showing that you have compassion. Have you ever thought that maybe she was letting you know because the OM doesn't want to hear it? She got physically injured. You not showing any compassion makes you sound like an @$$ in this case. No offense.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.