How do you let go? Calling it quits.

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I asked the therapist about his comment today (personal session). she thought it was odd too. She agrees he could be but didnt say any diagnosis to him and said that word didnt come up. I dont think H has had therapy before me? i havent bought it back up with H about his comment. Maybe it was just an odd joke.

So the jerk reappeared today. He had a hard day at work, has to travel next week. He can set the schedule. When he said he had to travel, i said ok but remember we have stuff going on. Meaning to please schedule around it. He immediately got defensive and said work came first. That he is going to have to travel a lot soon and i wont make it without him. Sarcastically. I was single a loooong time living on my own before him, i will survive. next week i have a ct scan, our first joint therapy session and my deceased sons birthday. Hardly normal stuff. He has 3 full days he can travel around those 3 things. Am i wrong to expect working out a schedule if possible like adults who care about each other? He gave me the cold shoulder all through dinner. Snapped at me earlier for asking him a question about which of 2 man movies he rented he wanted me to put in dvd player because i interrupted him reading an email. I am such a witch, huh?

So sick of Jeckyll and Hyde. We can do so well, then he does this stuff and it makes me want to run. This happens every single time. His anger, bad attitude, rudeness.

I just responded that i would have problem making it without him, to travel all he wanted. I was ticked. And after dinner i told him he was wrong for not acting like an adult having a normal conversation. Hes giving me cold shoulder now. I do not care. I stood up for myself. Jerk.