Onyourside you provide some interesting and provocative thoughts which I really appreciate. I know W and when she makes up her mind she follows through regadless of consequences. Seen her do it many times. I don't believe this M can be saved but DBing has helped me deal with this and look at myself. I will continue to have hope where there does not seem to be any. Not much else I can do right now. I am not much of a follower but in this sitch I have given her total control and I will sit back and cooperate as I have. Thank you again
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
