you need a plan, a "Campaign" of sorts. What are your GAL and 180s?
You just seem to be giving him ALL your power and waiting for the other shoe to drop. That's no way to live.
Maybe you can come up with an action plan w/Jodi or somehow know there's something that you are doing...as opposed to just worrying and waiting...
oh and what about meeting with a L so your financial fears are allayed?
(knowledge is power and you do not have to DO anything legal...just get information)
good luck
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