Working things out? I just shook my head. When I ran into the mlc train, my then h, was telling everyone that we were working things out. Guess what! I was doing the working and attempting to fix things...what was he doing? Absolutely nothing but plotting his escape.
You shouldn't have to hide your feelings. If you are angry, find a pillow and beat the h@ll out of it. If you feel the need to cry, find a place where your children will not see you doing it. It's okay to have down days...no one going through this is going to be Miss Suzy Sunshine all of the time....
Your mission to be the strong one for you and your children. Your focus has to be on them...they need you to be the sane adult.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
