One thing that is confusing to me is that my H still will once in a while look (fish) for my admiration and or approval. Not sure why he bothers with what I think as he has handily replaced me with ow.
Do wonder sometimes if ow is a little lax in handing out the praise to him or if he looks to me because it's something she might not know about or understand. (Something in our history)
Nothing I dwell on, but certain incidents are curious to me.