If you want to show off your DB skills -take the pictures down. It took me a while but eventually I did as well.

I believe one day I will put them back up!!

I hated looking at pictures of my H smiling next to me. Also I think it would help your sitch and H would feel like you are moving on.

Every time your H sees the pictures he will feel pressure. We need to take the pressure off.

Just think of it as temporary redecorating.

Go to an ALanon Meeting! It doesnt matter that alcohol is not the issue here. You will meet so many wonderful woman and it will be easier to share with them because they are not acting like their lives are perfect (Like our neighbors)

I have really distanced myself from causal neighbors who I am not sharing with and have found a whole group of wonderful supportive woman who I can have play dates with.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13