Originally Posted By: kolja

I ski with friends, I ski with family - but if no one wants to go, I've never let that stop me from going.

Good for you, man! That's fantastic!

Originally Posted By: kolja

The good news is, I'm already in a better place than I was when semi-frantic and fairly desperate Google searching lead me to MWD's site, the books, and this forum. Yes, everything else being equal, I'd like nothing more to revive our marriage and move forward together, but as an individual I'm feeling pretty decent.

I think this is the case for many of us here. If nothing else, if you can get yourself to a better place, you'll come out of this a winner.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26