This morning I got up earlier to leave for work. Saw W for about 3 minutes and told her to have a good day, she said the same. She has stopped having breakfast with me but continues to eat dinner. She continues to leave the front light on for when I get home and asks me what I need from the supermarket. She no longer stays away from the same shared space. I guess these are some positives.
Rick, you have to save up the small positives while (like JS said on my thread) guarding your heart. It could the first small signs of a turnaround or it could be nothing. You have the freedom to choose whether something's a positive or negative, so why not choose the positive?
One big positive, though, is everything you've done for yourself. You would have never done those things for yourself unless you had been pushed into the situation you're in. You have used this negative situation to your advantage. Good for you!
