I just don't see how rushing around to find a place, going into debt, putting our dog in a kennel and making her unhappy and confused, and basically making MYSELF miserable is a good choice. If I did it, it would simply be to make the point to him that I CAN leave, which I think is ridiculous.
I have never claimed that he was going to come home and whisk me off my feet. But read my threads as you will Labug.