Thanks, JS. Looking forward to reading about his path.
The good news is, I'm already in a better place than I was when semi-frantic and fairly desperate Google searching lead me to MWD's site, the books, and this forum. Yes, everything else being equal, I'd like nothing more to revive our marriage and move forward together, but as an individual I'm feeling pretty decent.
Quick update on my little world - yet another 'snow day' at work. Not so much because of snow anymore, because none has fallen for a while, but the roads (which are hilly, especially leading to the base) are still pretty icy. I've enjoyed it - my little acre out in the woods looks AWESOME in the snow, and the few days have been quite relaxing. I've still managed to get out each day and brave the roads to get to the gym or pool.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12