I posted a story I read on an old thread on someone's thread but don't think it was this one. If it was, it bears repeating.
Think of this as trying to coax a squirrel to eat out of your hand. Any sudden movement or noise could scare her away, never to return.
I don't think I would send that letter right away. Not that it's not good, but if she has too much to process all at once it may be a negative. Give it a couple of days.
You must be a quivering bowl of jello.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss