H had his first therapy session. He actually went, didnt try to get out of it and says he likes the therapist. We go to a joint session next week. I thanked H for going, his response was 'I gave you my word that I would go'.... A first. I am glad he is starting to take giving his word more seriously. In the past he would break his word and disappoint me without a second thought if he didnt want to do something. i can see he is trying. he also made a joke about the therapy diagnosing him as a narcisist, which was very odd he would use that term. Im not sure it was a joke, he definitely has narcisistic tendencies.
Around the house, things are good. We are joking, laughing, hanging out together. Neither of us is criticizing or complaining. We are talking about our days more, going out together. He is encouraging me to see a doctor and is saving to help pay for surgery for my hernia. Before he would have rather used money on a trip or his man room or the boys. I finally feel like a priority.
I just wish I could freeze us and keep it good.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
