Confused and alone

[BklynMom]

""Why should you make it easy for him to come back without making him suffer? Shouldn't he have to apologize? Unfortunately, if you really want him back, then the answer for now is that you have to swallow it and make it easy for him to come back. Some people have a really hard time with this because you have to swallow your pride. It makes some people feel like a doormat.""

I love this ^^^^

And the next paragraph - the prize is getting the relationship back.

The LBS does 99% of the work. But we just need to do it, for our kids