Yes, one of the things that I realized is that he is naturally pessimistic. Since he is gone, I realized that I am not. Well, I guess i am in some ways, but I am much more likely to look at bad situations as challenges.

I also realized that I am much more energetic than he is.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D