Try it. If he rejects the idea, then just try again next time. I had to bring it up several times before my H agreed. The first time he said "what for? nothing will make me change my mind" Yeah, right!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go