So......is it waffling? I have not heard from STBX in 2 weeks, and we are slated to sign the papers a week from tomorrow. Do I contact her? Not to discuss the terms, but just a quick text to tell her I hope she is OK. Is that foolish, and I should stay dark? Am I a fool to think she even wants to hear from me?


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012