I agree Angel...I dont think i would send a letter to friends and H regarding the weekend...Im more the sit and wait and watch kind of gal now...

I have been having some progress in my situation and have thought about bringing up Retrouvaille in the context that it could help with our communication, much the same way you did. I guess Im just worried that he will flat out reject the idea. He is still seeing ow but showing signs of missing his family and our R.
We are about half way through D and thought of presenting it as help with communication so we can be better for our son. He has so far been open to anything that would help with our son.
I dont know...still pondering that and prob will for awhile..

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...