Living with a WAW while going through a D part III

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It seems clear to me that your W's love language is receiving gifts and yours is physical touch. Yet she has probably always spoken to you in her love language instead of yours. And I would guess you have always done the same thing?

Is there a way given the circumstances of your present sitch, to speak to your wife in her love language? Maybe a thoughtful book, a nice plant that reminds her of the coming spring or a bag of carrots for the horses. Something not too personal, but thoughtful nonetheless?

If done in carefully measured doses, it might not be interpreted as pursuit.

Just something to consider.....