WEll - I would guess Quality Time is definitely one of his LL's, since he's so concerned about you opening up to him and talking to him.

AS for his second LL - think back to his responses in the past. Would he rather have a mushy card and a compliment, or have you buy him that exact gadget out of the catalogue that he said he wanted? (Words of Affirmation versus Gifts). Is he effusively grateful if you make some crafty thing for him, or does he make some comment about not knowing what to do with it, or the one from the store being better? (Acts of Service versus Gifts?)

And if he does lots of Acts of Service for YOU (detailing your car, bringing you tea and coffee, etc) he is probably someone who wants to hear Words of Affirmation.

On the other hand, if he's a guy who always wants to hold your hand, rub your shoulders, sit touching you, lots of hugs and kisses - he's a Physical Touch guy. (Dang, I've only briefly dated one of those since my divorce - I'm definitely Physical Touch myself, it was quite lovely to be with a guy who liked it too smile He was one of the inappropriately young ones though. frown My current boyfriend is more like my ex - I think he would prefer I didn't touch him so much, so I try to keep my hands to myself.)