Confused and alone

[BklynMom]

With all do respect to Accuray & your friend I do not think you should say anything to your H about OW.

I think you should wait longer. Your H is so confused right now. Asking him to a make a choice right now I feel is too risky.

Even if you ask your H in a chill way I feel he will still feel pressure by the conversation and to fight back will just tell you again that its over.

My advice is to continue to stay busy and detach. DOnt mention the relationship or the future.

have you read Laura Munsons book?

Also I dont think having sex with your H is necessarily bad. It depends on your R with him and his thoughts on sex. It could help bring him back. It is important that you gauge his response to the sex (without asking) and see what effect if any its having on him