Do you think it would be a good idea to do a joint session to process your letter. It is overwhelming to me."
And she didn't even have to see you face to face and have you look into her eyes. That's even better! It was no accident that the judge didn't show up yesterday.
She is torn about her decision now. You have have been shown a little crack in the door. She could go either way at this point.
It's a positive sign, Crimson. Just try not to take that sign as her saying she's giving you another chance. That's not what she's doing, yet. However, she is interested in finding out more about that letter and just what those words really mean.
I know, you want to DO something to put this on stronger grounds before she changes her mind, but you have to stay calm. She needs to feel that you are confident in the new "you", and IMO, showing patient and calmness will support this.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
That's even better! It was no 