When we met I told her I didn't drink and was in AA. Within a month we were sharing bottles of wine together
Wow - she KNEW you were sober and in AA, and she drank with you???
Sorry, honey, this woman is NO GOOD for you. Anyone who doesn't respect and help someone in AA is a selfish bad influence. I have friends who are in AA, I would never dream of sabotaging their sobriety by drinking with them or allowing them to drink around me.
Get back to AA and let go of this unhealthy influence. You have to get yourself in a healthy place before you can have a healthy relationship.
