First of all - what does your friend know about MLC or WAS or DB? Has your friend been married 30+ years or something???

I learned this the hard way but even though friends want to be helpful, they have no clue what advice will help save your marriage.

The worst advice I have gotten is from my best best friend, who has been married for 10 years - but she has only dealt with every day fights in a marriage what we are going through is different.

If your goal is to be married for 30, 40 or 50 years and you cant deal with 6mths or 1 yr or even 2 yrs of hardship - think about that. This is not gonna be easy, but what do you want??

Please for good advice call a DB coach or listen to 25 or busto

D1 wants me off computer I will write more later


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13