First of all - what does your friend know about MLC or WAS or DB? Has your friend been married 30+ years or something???
I learned this the hard way but even though friends want to be helpful, they have no clue what advice will help save your marriage.
The worst advice I have gotten is from my best best friend, who has been married for 10 years - but she has only dealt with every day fights in a marriage what we are going through is different.
If your goal is to be married for 30, 40 or 50 years and you cant deal with 6mths or 1 yr or even 2 yrs of hardship - think about that. This is not gonna be easy, but what do you want??
Please for good advice call a DB coach or listen to 25 or busto
D1 wants me off computer I will write more later
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13