Ehh....I think one could overthink the importance of it.
The words are strong, yet very blaming.
Being a music lover myself, I have always had a hard time listening to a song, and thinking that the lyrics to a song 100% encapsulated my thoughts...and how weak I would have to be, to own another's emotions down to my core.
Most times, there are only a couple lines out of each song that COULD apply to my feelings at that time....
She may have been feeling those things at that time, yet I doubt that that has become her mantra.
Hell, she may be listening to your old Lawrence Welk records this week....( reminder to get those back )
Did you do those things to her ???
Where you that person in the song ?
I think that might be the nail your hammer is hitting...
The guilt that you WERE that guy....
Have you taken a look at that ?
Sammy...
It's time....
Time to work towards YOUR future now...
Once again, I am going to beat you upside your hard head, and tell you that you need to find a place of your own....
You are gonna come back and talk about money,...
And I'm going to come back and tell you that money is an excuse.
So can we skip that, and you can just tell me what your plan is ???
I'm gonna ask you what you do for you ...
You are gonna come back and tell me about your Church, and what you volunteer to them...
And I'm gonna come back and ask you if you could volunteer less and use that time to find a Part time job, so that you can earn extra money to use for your
A) Living situation B) Lawyer to fight for your kids
So can we skip that, and go straight to your answers ????
Then I'm going to ask you about why you aren't taking a more active role in fighting for your children...
Then you are going to come back at me with some lame-ass excuse about money, and that your Lawyer says that they are not in harm...
Blah, blah, blah.... BS
Then I'm gonna ask you....
Why are you letting your Lawyer dictate your relationship, with your children ?
Who the F is he, to determine your relationship with them ???
So can we skip THAT, and you answer those questions ????
No BS....
Answers dude...
The thing is....you THINK that you are letting go.
The reality is, that you are still playing tug-of-war with a Badger...
Why ? Because you are not ready to live this life for yourself.
You still depend on her actions to validate YOUR life.
You still look over your shoulder, for her approval, every time you try to make a decision...
You are tunnel visioned, about the damage NOT fighting for you children is doing to them.
What is it going to take, for you to kick down the walls of the box you are living in ???
What is it going to take, for you to see, that your ticket through MLC, is to address YOUR things, and live YOUR life ???
Don't run from the hard questions...
Do what is right for you and your children...
Don't blame anyone else, for your shortcomings, and failures.
Let your wife spin out of control as much as she wants\needs to..
IF down the road, she chooses to look back toward you, THEN you can make the choices that you are trying to force today....
