make eye contact when she talks and show that you are LISTENING
tell her how much she means to you but that you are conflicted about attention giving vs pressure.
Her comment though, suggests she misses ATTENTION and my guess is her love languages are Quality time and words of affirmation--I don't know her though.
But she SAID she misses the attention OM gave her. That's a big clue...and you can read the first chapter of DR online I think...there are tons of resources on this site now
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
